U.S.S. Mariner

06 May

An Update

A few months ago, I put up a post mentioning that my girlfriend was running a marathon in Alaska this June to raise money for leukemia and lymphoma research. Well, I wanted to give you guys a couple of updates.

First off, she stands all of $13 away from her goal of $5,000, and you guys were a huge part of that, giving almost $2,500 in a day. She was overwhelmed by your generosity, and both her and I can’t thank you guys enough for being willing to give to a great cause. Thank you.

And, as a further update, she’s actually not my girlfriend anymore. As of yesterday, she’s now my fiancee`. I proposed in front of Elk Falls in the mountains of North Carolina, and her response was “Are You Serious?”. Apparently, even when dating a blogger, it’s hard to imagine that they’ll ever actually propose. She did say yes once the shock wore off, at least.

We’re probably headed towards an October or November wedding, which means that I’m officially rooting for the Mariners to not win it all this year. Feel free to suck eggs and not be playing meaningful baseball this winter, fellas. You have my permission.

102 Responses to “An Update”

  1. 1
    Jar said:

    Nice work Dave! Congrats man!

    I think the Mariners just might take you up on that offer.

  2. 2
    Mere Tantalisers said:

    Hey alright. Congrats to you both and way to go on the fundraising, doubly so as I am a direct beneficiary of any such efforts working in a cancer immunology lab.

  3. 3
    Jar said:

    Also, “are you serious?” isn’t that bad. . . my wife threw up.

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    Ollie in Raleigh said:

    Congratulations Dave and the same to the future Mrs. Cameron. Elk Falls huh? When my gf returns from the Peace Corps I was thinking the outer banks.

    Here is to a long and happy future for the both of you.

  5. 5
    vj said:

    David posted this 29 December 2003:

    Since it took less than two hours to get a response from our well-meaning readers, I feel compelled to clarify that I am single by choice, and have no need to become less single. Derek’s good-natured attempts to find me a woman are humerous, but I’m really not sitting at home, leafing through the [...]

    (can’t access the rest of the post as it lacks a headline)
    In any event, good that you’ve changed your mind. Congratulations!

  6. 6
    pygmalion said:

    Congratulations Dave!

  7. 7
    M's Fan in Red Sox Nation said:

    Dave, that is awesome news on many levels. Congratulations to the both of you!

  8. 8
    teacherrefpoet said:

    I proposed to my wife at the The Five Spot, the restaurant where we had our first date–at the table where we had our first date. At the moment I popped the question, a waitress came up to give her her Diet Coke. You’ve never seen a waitress run away so fast in all your life.

    Congrats, Dave, and all the best to both of you. Marriage absolutely rocks.

  9. 9
    King said:

    Great story. Thanks for putting a smile on my face this morning.

  10. 10
    TheEmrys said:

    My wife had the same response when I asked her to marry me. Good memories. I have to remember to tease her about it again. Congrats!

  11. 11
    nadingo said:

    Congratulations, Dave!

    My fiancee’s first reaction was to look at the larger-than-expected ring and say, “where did you get this?!”

    Once she remembered to answer my question first (”Yes!”), I explained that I’d gotten it from my grandmother, so she didn’t need to worry about me spending large piles of our hard-earned money.

  12. 12
    bermanator said:

    Congratulations!

    (I’m hoping her family doesn’t think of bloggers the way Bissinger does)

  13. 13
    jefffrane said:

    I haven’t had the best luck with the institution myself, but congratulations on your engagement. My parents just celebrated their 65th, so obviously I was just doing something wrong — marriage can be done.

  14. 14
    abender20 said:

    Firstly- congratulations!
    Secondly- The Mariners winning the WS would only be appropriate (if not EXTREMELY unlikely). Then you, your wife, Felix, and Ichiro could all get Rings at the same time.

  15. 15
    Jed MC said:

    Congratulations! Best wishes to both of you.

  16. 16
    smb said:

    Many congrats, may you pop out little sabermetricians for years to come!

  17. 17
    nycmariner said:

    Cheers!

  18. 18
    Corey said:

    Congratulations Dave and the future Mrs. Cameron!

    Nice work. :)

  19. 19
    Mr. Egaas said:

    Wait, let me get this straight, you proposed when it wasn’t even Felix day?…

    Congrats!

  20. 20
    scraps said:

    Wow, congratulations!

  21. 21
    SABRcat said:

    Congratulations!

    I will be eagerly anticipating the statistical analysis of who is better at taking out the garbage and changing diapers :D

  22. 22
    Rain Delay said:

    Congrats Dave!

  23. 23
    thewyrm said:

    Congratulations to you and your future bride Mr. Cameron! I’d love to buy to both of you a couple rounds when you visit AK.

  24. 24
    Jeff Nye said:

    Awesome news, Dave. Congrats.

  25. 25
    Dave said:

    Well, that is one piece of bad news in this - she’s still going to Alaska, but I’m not going to be able to make it. The price of me getting up there and spending a few days in Anchorage is pretty high, and since I didn’t inherit a ring from my grandma, I’ve got other places where that money can go.

    I’m still making the trip to Seattle, but I’m not going to make it to Alaska this summer, unfortunately.

  26. 26
    Zobmie said:

    Dave,

    Heartfelt congratulations to you both. May you have many years of peace and happiness together.

    Cheers!

  27. 27
    msb said:

    well, we’ll just have to front up for the congratulatory pops of pop here, then.

  28. 28
    The Ghost of Spike Owen said:

    Congrats Dave!

  29. 29
    galaxieboi said:

    Dude, congrats! That’s awesome.

    Also, can you relink to her website so we can get that $5K finished off?

  30. 30
    DoesntCompute said:

    Congratulations!

    You might want to think twice about that October wedding thing. Unless she is as big a baseball nut as you are, the potential for conflict when the M’s do eventually reach the playoffs and have a game on your anniversary is high.

  31. 31
    fret_24 said:

    Congratulations Dave. Do you know any good photographers?

  32. 32
    JerBear said:

    Congratulations, Dave - that’s awesome! Marriage is good…not easy, but good. :) My wife and I are expecting our first kid in a few months…now that’s a trip. We got engaged at Cannon Beach in Oregon…it was the day after New Years and was pretty rainy, but literally the moment I got down on my knee, there was a big break in the clouds - the sun hit us and the rain let up…it was a pretty sweet hookup.

  33. 33
    galaxieboi said:

    Wow. I just did it on Christmas morning in my pajamas. Good for you guys.

  34. 34
    Jay R. said:

    Congrats Dave! Our little baseball fanatic is all grown up! =)

    We got engaged at Cannon Beach in Oregon

    We spent our honeymoon at Stephanie Inn. Cannon Beach is awesome (especially Pizza a’Fetta!).

  35. 35
    Sentinel said:

    Putting your girl before the M’s!!??!?! How dare you, sir!?!?!

    Congrats! Best of luck.

  36. 36
    PositivePaul said:

    Awe. Some.

    Except, heh, I hope your blogging life doesn’t take the plunge with you. I’m sure you’ll find a way to keep on writing, even as you finally grow up and move out of your mom’s basement ;-)

  37. 37
    PositivePaul said:

    Congratulations Dave. Do you know any good photographers?

    Yeah, I think he knows one or two. At least…

  38. 38
    martin026 said:

    Congrats Dave. So many blogger stereotypes to make fun of.

    So a blogger actually knows a girl and some how fooled her into saying yes to a proposal. Is your mother’s basement big enough for the two of you to live in? Were you nervous about having to put pants on and leave your mother’s basement to propose? Did you consider an AIM style proposal so you could stay in your comfort zone?

    Anyway, congrats man and good luck. I here October baseball is a great for of entertainment at almost every wedding reception, and cheaper than a band or DJ. Keep that in mind.

  39. 39
    DKulich said:

    Congratulations Dave!

  40. 40
    RoninX said:

    Congratulations Dave!

    But be honest… you wouldn’t be looking at an October-November wedding date if the Ms had come storming out of the gates and Santana was 0-6 instead of 6-0… right?

  41. 41
    Matthew Carruth said:

    congrats.

  42. 42
    urchman said:

    Congratulations, Dave! My wife and I will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary in November, so I guess that’s evidence that Fall weddings can work. Among other things, we had an easier time getting a reception hall and such than if we’d had the wedding during the more popular spring or summer months. Best of luck.

  43. 43
    EastCoastMsFan said:

    Congratulations! That is really awesome, and best of everything to the both of you. My wife and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary last October and are looking forward to many, many more. May you both find as much happiness in marriage as we have!

  44. 44
    Pete Livengood said:

    Good for you, Dave! My most heartfelt congratulations. I know for a fact she is a lucky woman to have found such a caring and compassionate guy, and though I’ve never met your future wife, I suspect you are a pretty lucky guy, as well.

    Yesterday marked 19 years to the day that I met my wife. It’s been a great, wild ride along the way, but I can honestly say I believe you are heading into the best years of your life. Good luck, my friend.

    Oh, and how can we put her fundraising goal over the top now? Refresh my memory….

  45. 45
    eponymous coward said:

    Congratulations!

  46. 46
    patl said:

    Congratulations! May God bless you overwhelmingly.

  47. 47
    Sports on a Schtick said:

    Congrats Dave. May your Value Over Replacement Husband be through the roof.

  48. 48
    Xteve X said:

    Very cool. Congratulations Dave!

  49. 49
    coasty141 said:

    #47
    We should probably use value over league avg husband. jk. Congrats Dave.

  50. 50
    Sec 108 said:

    Congratulations and one bit of advice. Set the wedding for first week of November or later. I did that and it has saved me much heartache. This way the baseball playoffs will NEVER interfere with your anniversary.

    Oh, and marriage really is awesome.

  51. 51
    crazyray7391 said:

    Congratulations Dave!

  52. 52
    Evan said:

    Congratulations on inviting the government to regulate your personal life. Nothing says enduring love like legal recognition…

    Sec 108 has great advice. Get married on a date you’re fairly sure you won’t mind being busy every year. I recommend Veterans Day.

  53. 53
    NBarnes said:

    Did you present her with a spreadsheet detailing your VORF (Value Over Replacement Fiancee)?

  54. 54
    angrybeltre said:

    Congrats Dave!

  55. 55
    Capo said:

    I can just see all the data that was presented with the proposal…..

    Congratulations Dave, heres hoping the lack of sex after you get married (As I’m sure many married men here will attest), doesn’t make you even more grumpy.;)

  56. 56
    everett said:

    Dave, congratulations to you and your fiancee. And don’t worry about the Ms, your wedding is in great shape.

  57. 57
    jlc said:

    Dave, that’s wonderful for both of you. I highly recommend marriage, so I’m always happy to see new recruits. Personally, I would recommend Halloween for a wedding, but that’s because I can never remember my anniversary and even I’d have trouble forgetting that.

  58. 58
    Jason Maxwell said:

    Congrats Dave!

    #57, my anniversary is on the 4th of July (Insert independance joke here) so I never forget it. ;) 10 years this July!

  59. 59
    Gregor said:

    Congratulations to the two of you, Dave! I’m amazed that between your day job, your photography biz, and your work for USSM, you still have time for a social life …

    As for the wedding date, my wedding was October 27, 2001, the presumed date of Game 6 or (after the 9/11 cancellations) Game 1 of the World Series, and of course, it looked like a good possibility that year that the M’s were going to be there. It did make me feel kind of conflicted …

  60. 60
    musicman said:

    DAVE!!!

    Congrats! “Are you serious” isn’t that bad… My fiance cried for like five minutes while I was down on my knee. Since I had arranged for some close friends to be there it led to some pretty akward looks between everyone. Every single picture we have of the night has her crying. Pretty funny stuff. I guess I would cry if I was stuck marrying me too though…

    And on the time apart while she’s in Alaska, it’s really true that absinthe … errr absence makes the heart grow fonder. You can look forward to some of the best times in your relationship as your reunited. Congrats again!

  61. 61
    galaxieboi said:

    (after the 9/11 cancellations)

    Good friends of mine got married 2 weekends after 9/11. That was really rough. Half her family couldn’t make it, her brother got deployed right away. Hopefully yours went better, Gregor.

  62. 62
    AK4Sea said:

    Congrats!

    Any chance Willie Bloomquist is an ordained minister?

  63. 63
    scott19 said:

    Congratulations Dave! Though I usually seem to have weird luck in my relationships, I’m always happy to see people find their true “soulmate”. :)

    Best wishes and many blessings to both of you!

  64. 64
    PositivePaul said:

    Well, that is one piece of bad news in this - she’s still going to Alaska, but I’m not going to be able to make it. The price of me getting up there and spending a few days in Anchorage is pretty high, and since I didn’t inherit a ring from my grandma, I’ve got other places where that money can go.

    I’m still making the trip to Seattle, but I’m not going to make it to Alaska this summer, unfortunately.

    Hmmm. I wonder if we could collectively Corco the Donate button enough to get you the extra ticket. I know you’d never ask for that, but that’s certainly something we can do to support your awesome efforts with the site.

  65. 65
    Dave Clapper said:

    Congratulations, Dave! She’s a lucky woman.

  66. 66
    feingarden said:

    Congratulations on taking off the training wheels, Dave, and condolences to the future Ms. Cameron. ;)

    The minister who performed the ceremony for my wife and I 18 years ago insisted on giving us personality surveys in the weeks prior to the event. When we met with him for the results, he looked at us gravely and said, “Your marriage will be… interesting… but NEVER boring.” Looking back from 18 years, 2 kids, and 1700 miles away, I wish you the same… interesting and never boring rocks.

  67. 67
    msb said:

    Oh, and how can we put her fundraising goal over the top now? Refresh my memory….

    it’s here and it’s there…

  68. 68
    msb said:

    cheaper than a band or DJ.

    hey, these guys might be available to play at the wedding!

  69. 69
    kentroyals5 said:

    Did you tell her as good as you look right now, you are destined to regress to the mean?

  70. 70
    mariners23 said:

    qrgqw3vrweqveqveq

  71. 71
    Sparhawk2k said:

    Not much to add here but I had to say congratulations. On both the proposal and the donations for the marathon. :¬)

  72. 72
    mariners23 said:

    sorry, that was my little kid..

  73. 73
    lokiforever said:

    Congratulations: My wife laughed hysterically when I proposed…..she didn’t think I was serious at first.

    Dave: Does this mean you have now affirmatively jinxed at least one thing important in your life?

    a) Mariner’s October
    b) Your wedding day (Replete with gameday on your cellphone)

  74. 74
    xeifrank said:

    haha, ok… now tell us what you really did with the money!
    vr, Xei

  75. 75
    Sriram said:

    Hearty Congrats to both of you, Dave! Have fun !!! Best wishes !!

  76. 76
    Evan said:

    Wait…

    Are nerds who live on the internet allowed to get married? I thought there was a rule against that.

    No, really, congratulations. Though I hope this doesn’t take you awy from the blog.

  77. 77
    Evan said:

    Any chance Willie Bloomquist is an ordained minister?

    He could be. Anyone can be ordained online

  78. 78
    Gomez said:

    Good show, Dave. Remember to remind your future Mrs. that, when planning the wedding, the best ceremonies often aren’t the $20K-30K blowout ceremonies, but the simple ones, at someone’s home or in a nice space with the two families, music and plenty of food/drink. It’ll save both of you money better spent on a sweet honeymoon.

    Looks like you’ll also have a perfect comeback for the usual ‘bloggers live in their moms’ basements’ smack.

  79. 79
    Tom said:

    Way to go Dave!!!

    Good luck man!

  80. 80
    Sports on a Schtick said:

    So I’m thinking we all should chip in and buy Dave a gag gift. Authentic Bobby Ayala jersey?

  81. 81
    Benne said:

    I hear Felix is going to be Dave’s best man. And they will ride out on a chariot of ponies with Boom Boom in the driver’s seat.

    Congrats, Dave.

  82. 82
    Gregor said:

    So I’m thinking we all should chip in and buy Dave a gag gift. Authentic Bobby Ayala jersey?

    I am thinking the authentic Rich Amaral jersey might be even better.

  83. 83
    JMHawkins said:

    Congrats Dave!

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    Mr. Egaas said:

    Bloomquist for the gag.

  85. 85
    Beniitec said:

    Congratulations Dave & Amy. Marriage is awesome. Good luck finding a photographer!!! :)

  86. 86
    jouish said:

    Man, that would be a fun wedding to go to with Felix and WMFB. I’d love to go (especially if his cousin Josie is going to be there).

  87. 87
    Breadbaker said:

    Congratulations, Dave and Amy. But please schedule the wedding for what would be the date of Game Seven of the World Series, so that the big karma explosion can come our way.

  88. 88
    Teej said:

    Congrats, Dave!

  89. 89
    ghug said:

    87 - How about a Ho-Ram or Silva jersy?

  90. 90
    Jeff Nye said:

    I vote for a Doyle jersey.

  91. 91
    PositivePaul said:

    I vote for a Doyle jersey.

    OOoohhh, there’s a thought. Have the penguins dressed up in Doyle jerseys instead of tuxes…

  92. 92
    galaxieboi said:

    I vote for a Doyle jersey.

    Aye.

  93. 93
    Steve T said:

    No, it’s gotta be a WFB one.

    Congratulations, Dave, that’s awesome news. I wish you eighty years of happiness together.

    I proposed to my wife in the parking lot of a Macheezmo Mouse, which is the worst I’ve ever heard. And then I married her in Vegas, at the same chapel where The Who got married (I never did find out what that meant; surely bands don’t married to each other?) I’m sure you’ll come up with something better than that.

  94. 94
    Grizz said:

    Congratulations, Dave. My wife still likes to tell people I moved up our October wedding one week just in case the M’s made the World Series . . . and the M’s went on to finish 29 games back.

  95. 95
    BillyJive said:

    Congrats….
    Now watch them win it all just cause you asked them not to…
    Hmm maybe I’m on to something here…
    I hope you guys lose tonight against Texas!!
    Go *cringe* Texas!!!

  96. 96
    Typical Idiot Fan said:

    and her response was “Are You Serious?”.

    LOL! As a renouned wise man once said: “Congratulations, you have my sympathies.”

  97. 97
    Typical Idiot Fan said:

    As another renouned wise man said: I didn’t mean to post that twice.

  98. 98
    Jeff Nye said:

    I’m going to start taking people’s clicker fingers if they keep doubleposting.

  99. 99
    gag harbor said:

    Know any good wedding photographers?

    Congrats!!

  100. 100
    hark said:

    62, AK:

    No, but Alex Diaz is.

  101. 101
    dlb said:

    Congrats!

  102. 102
    BillyJive said:

    I know a groovy funk/disco band that does wedding occassionaly…

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